The four people you must find in life.

The four people you must find in life.

I remember, growing up I heard this saying that the four people you must find in life are: yourself, the one you love the most, the one who loves you the most and the one who you get married to.

The first person you must find is none other than yourself. It is important what you find yourself and get to know yourself because if you do not know yourself everything you have will be useless. You must connect with your inner person and learn to appreciate yourself. Know what you are worth and never, I repeat, never allow anyone to make you feel like you are nothing. Too many times when people get involved in relationships, they lose themselves, I am not saying that this is always a bad thing, but in some cases it is very bad. If your partner does not respect you, if they abuse you, if they hurt you and you allow them to do it, this means that you lost yourself and it's not good. Never allow this to happen, I cannot stress on how important it is to keep in touch with yourself in this situation. Always remember one thing, if this person is hurting you and making you feel less than you are worth, then my friend he/she is simply not worth it. The person who truly loves you will never intentionally hurt you. If it happens that he/she unintentionally hurts you and really loves you... he/she will completely surrender to you. They will admit their mistakes and try to make it up to you. If your partner does not show you any gratitude, if they do not respect you, if they abuse you, as long as you are in touch with yourself you can walk out of that relationship with confidence! You see, when you’ve found yourself in life, your confidence level will drastically increase and you will believe that you can achieve anything, you will believe that you are the most precious thing in this world then nothing and no one can get you down which leads to a perfectly healthy and happy human being.

The second person you will find in life is the one that you love the most. When you find this person, you will be so happy for the first time in your life you will experience what it is to love someone. Loving someone gives you courage and strength that you never knew existed within you. When you are in love, it’s a feeling of bliss where no one else is around except the person that you love. You have so much courage within you that should incase hardships come your way…. You can face them, head on and tackle them with no problems what so ever you see that’s the power that comes with being in love. I guess it’s like an adrenaline rush where nothing can hold you back and you just keep going forward and doing what it is you want to do. When you are in love with someone, and another person tries to get to close to the one that you love, you automatically get defensive, ready to fight for the one that you love. You will do anything for this person….. Even give your life if they ask for it.

The third you will meet in life is the one who loves you the most; unfortunately many times in life the one that we love the most and the one who loves us the most are two different people. Never my friend, I say never hurt the one who loves you the most. Do not ignore them because you cannot get the one that you love the most. Always remember how you felt when you lost the one that you love the mot, I am not saying to take pity upon the one who loves you the most, or to let your guilt lead you into a relationship with them, but a little friendship never hurt anyone.  Do not hurt this person; you can just help them to move on, and to find someone who can return their love.

The fourth person you will meet, is the person what you marry. Unfortunately for many of us, the one we love, the one who loves us the most, and the one that we get married too are many times three different people. The person that you get married to, is the one with whom you will spend the rest of your life. My wish to each and every one of you is that the one you love, the one who loves you and the one that you get married to, is the same person. Sometimes people fall in love, and they are scarred, they get their hearts broken, and are never able to move on, or forget the one that they love. Hmm what I’m trying to say to you all is, if you ever in life, meet someone who loves you deeply and you love that person, forget everything and marry them. Cherish that person forever and treat them like they deserve to be treated. Cherish your loved ones, you never know how much longer they are in your life. I agree it is hard to leave everything for one person, but if you can accept that you love this person more than anything else, then others can accept it. Hmm if you leave this person behind, they will be scarred for life, and so will you. When you both get married to other people, four lives will be ruined, all because two people who loved each other did not fight for their love. Love is the most precious thing in life, so if you find it, fight for it and keep it alive always.